Exploring History With Your Home School Student

Where will my thoughts take me today?

While you are exploring different ways to look at history take a look at Leonardo Da Vinci.  Here was a man who was born during an age when your family name would either make your future or destroy it. He was an illegitimate child. He was only given a very rudimentary education in reading and writing. Because of that very lack of forced education he was allowed to become one of the most prolific artists and engineers of his time! His imagination allowed him to create designs for flying machines that would not be built until present day. His drawings of human anatomy were detailed and accurate. His artistic creations still leave us standing in awe!

How did the educational norms of that era impact the thinking of others? People born into “royal” families were educated to lead their people in the same way their fathers had. They were taught the art of warfare in order to preserve their area of control and possibly increase it. They encountered various languages and learned to read,write and do math. Probably the most irritating was that they were taught they were “better” than others and therefore any one else was to be used in whatever way they deemed fit. People in the “lower” classes were only given enough education to do their job. A servant did not need to be able to read. A farmer did not need to know how to do math problems. Education was aimed directly at whatever field the student was going to be in for their lifetime. Quite often the child did not have a choice but was apprenticed into whatever the family could afford. Education was limited partly because it served to keep people in their place in society.

How do the educational standards of today limit or empower students? Is public school set up to indoctrinate the student into doing what they are told and not to use their imagination? Are students only being taught enough to fill a role that others think they should fill? Those questions should make us take another look at Leonardo. What would have become of him if he had been forced to attend public school? He would have been taught to think the way the royalty wanted him to think. He would have been taught a trade. He would not have been encouraged to think independently and develop ideas that were contrary to church and state. What a depressing way to live! Is this what is happening to our public school children?

Leonardo was the pinnacle of  home school success for his time! He was allowed to explore and develop ideas of his own. He pushed the boundaries of his time in developing machinery and art. As you guide your home school student through their studies be sure and leave them time to grow like Leonardo did. You are creating the independent, inspiring thinkers of the coming age! These are the children who keep pushing the home school statistics higher and higher!

 

Writing Exercises for Fun & Your Information

Where will my thoughts take me today?

Writing can be a lot of fun and an easy way to explore subjects such as “what if this happened” or what would your day be like if you lived at this time in history. These are super easy and free resources to empower your home school!

It may be used to find out if your child really understands what it would be like to live during a certain era in a time that you have been studying. If you have been studying the late 1800’s then ask your child what a young student’s life was like. You can place them living in the city or out on a farm. How about just immigrating to this country. What would their challenges be? Would they understand the language? How would their parents treat them and how would their parents survive? What would their clothing look like? How were their customs in conflict with their new way of life? All of these questions can inspire your child to really investigate the period.

When exploring the “what if” subjects you can find out if your child has really understood certain concepts such as what to do if they become separated from you while in a shopping mall. The imaginary child should react in a way consistent with your teachings. If they do not then you can  discuss why they reacted differently and what they should have done.

Letting your home school educated child do a writing on any subject they want will give you insights on how they are thinking and if they are having any undisclosed problems. We all think we know our children, but they have internal conflicts that are totally alien from what we think. When they set up a conflict in their writing and then solve the conflict they are doing emotional or mental problem solving the way they think it should be done.

Every child should have a private journal! A place where they can put down on paper their deepest thoughts without being afraid that someone is going to make fun of them or chide them about what they have written. These journals should be protected from all interference from all family members. Only if the child hands them to you should you ever read them. This small oasis of privacy will give them a safe place to go and inspire them to trust you.

Writing is the way they can express their darkest fears and highest hopes. Let their imaginations grow and you will be rewarded with children who are willing to reach for the stars! I feel that this sort of exercises are why our children out perform in home school statistics at every level. They enjoy learning and are not bound with others expectations of what and how they should study. Learning becomes a part of exploration through out their lives.

The Why of Home School Statistics

I want to be able to learn!

I want to Learn!

I have had several people ask me lately why home school children do better on their SAT scores than their counterparts in the public school system. While the main reasons may be plain to me they obviously are not to others. So I am going to list  some of them and my reasoning behind them.

1: Direct parent involvement in the child’s learning process.
When a parent is there to encourage, empower, guide, and cheer them on the child is reassured and inspired by the parents caring that they are “learning”!  A child who goes off to school everyday and is monitored by non family members becomes disassociated from the family involvement. They begin to gravitate towards the moral, political, and social norms of their teachers. This causes strife and furthers stress in the family. Any time you increase the stress level you decrease the ability to absorb needed information and therefore stagnate the learning process.

2: Ability to meet the child at their level of understanding.
Parents are better able to meet and aid the child in their studies on a personal and immediate need level. A child who is having problems understanding a concept can take the time to absorb the needed material and therefore retain the information for when they need it in the next process. In the public school a teacher must travel forward at a prearranged rate and cover a set amount of subject matter in order to meet the goals set by administration. Even great teachers get frustrated at their inability to meet the needs of all of their students.

3: Empowering the child
Parents are better able to empower the child to learn all of the necessary subjects by being able to tap into their personal interests. History, science, math, and English can be modified to identify with what the child is interested in.  If they are interested in carpentry then look at how it has changed in the last twenty thousand years. Architecture, how did they build the pyramids or great temples in Greece? English will be picked up by reading on the subjects and math can be applied anywhere. A child interested in becoming a nurse or doctor can volunteer at various places and receive insight into the actual job. Some high schools are starting to encourage their students to do these types of things but unfortunately they wait until the child’s senior year. By that time the child is already programed by the type of classes they have taken and unable to go back and get information they may need. If they want to become a doctor and find out that the atmosphere of the hospital makes them physically ill they only have a short period of time to change courses.

4: Moral and Ethical considerations
It is difficult to guide a child through their teenage years. They are maturing and starting to reach out and make their own decisions on who and what they are going to be. Students in public schools are stopped from praying. They are subjected to classes that may be counter to the beliefs of their family. They are ridiculed if the standard of dress their religion requires is different from the other children. The moral and ethical standards of many teachers are being called into question as more information comes out about predatory teachers. The peer pressure to be part of the “in” crowd can be overwhelming and cause the child to be caught up in actions that they do not want to be part of such as drugs and sex.

5: Meeting Your child’s individual learning style
Children learn in many different ways, visually, orally, hands on and combinations of all of them. I found with my own children that they learned better at different times of the day. Public school is not able to meet the style needs of all of the children and I have never seen one that would stay open late at night to accommodate the student who learns best in the evening. Personally, if I need to deeply concentrate on a subject I want to do it in the early morning hours. I also do my best writing during those hours. So it is possible to meet your child’s needs in those areas.

6: Safety
With gang violence and shootings in the schools safety is becoming a real and scary issue. The mounting drug problems and predator staff compounds the problems. Even the school buses are not safe as the recent beating to death of a student shows. If your child must walk to school they are exposed to criminals of all types. Is the public school safe for any children?

Those are the main reasons that I feel home school statistics will continue to out rank their public school counterparts. Home school children get a better education that is suited to their educational level and in ways that they can understand and profit from. The statistics will continue to tell the story as time goes on.

Just For Us Home School Parents!


What was it I was going to do?

Wow, My parents & Grandparents are Busy People!

 I received this in an email the other day and they said to re-post it wherever I wanted to. I think that as the seasons change it is important to remember just how awesome home school parents are. They not only do everything that other parents do, but add to their daily schedule the responsibility and joy of helping their children learn. The Home School Statistics show that you are doing an awesome job of helping your children succeed in the learning process. So, Here is to you. Read and Enjoy!

“I think this may be better than being a domestic engineer !!!

A woman, named Emily, renewing her driver’s license at the County Clerk’s office was asked by the woman recorder to state her occupation.

She hesitated, uncertain how to classify herself.

What I mean is, “explained the recorder, “Do you have a job,” or are you just a ……?”

“Of course I have a job,” snapped Emily, “I’m a mother.”

“We don’t list ‘mother’ as an occupation. ‘housewife’ covers it,” said  the recorder emphatically.

I forgot all about her story until one day I found myself in the same situation, this time at our own Town Hall. The Clerk was obviously a career woman, poised, efficient, and possessed of a high sounding title like, “Official Interrogator” or  Town Registrar.”

“What is your occupation?” she probed.

What made me say it, I do not know. The words simply popped out. “I’m a Research Associate in the field of Child Development and Human Relations.”

The clerk paused, ballpoint pen frozen in midair, and looked up as though she had not heard right.

I repeated the title slowly, emphasizing the most significant words.  Then I stared with wonder as my pronouncement was written in bold, black  ink on the official questionnaire.

“Might I ask,” asked the clerk with new interest, “just what do you do in your field?”

Coolly, without any trace of fluster in my voice, I heard myself reply
“I have a continuing program of research (what mother doesn’t), in the laboratory and in the field, (normally I would have said indoors and  out). I’m working for my Masters, (the whole darned family), and already  have four credits (all daughters). Of course, the job is one of the  most demanding in the humanities (any mother care to disagree?), and I often work 14 hours a day, (24 is more like it). But the job is more
challenging than most run-of-the-mill careers and the rewards are more of a satisfaction rather than just money.”

There was an increasing note of respect in the clerk’s voice as she completed the form, stood up, and personally ushered me to the door.

As I drove into our driveway, buoyed up by my glamorous new career, I was greeted by my lab assistants ages 13, 7, and 3. Upstairs I could hear our new experimental model, (a 6-month old baby), in the  child-development program, testing out a new vocal pattern.

I felt triumphant! I had scored a beat on bureaucracy! And I had gone  on the official records as someone more distinguished and indispensable to mankind than “just another mother.”

Motherhood! What a glorious career! Especially when there’s a title on the door.

Does this make grandmothers “Senior Research Associates in the field of  Child Development and Human Relations” and great grandmothers, Executive Senior Research Associates?” I think so!!!! I also think it makes  aunts “Associate Research Assistants.” author unknown

I think Home School Parents are also Educational Development Specialists! What other awesome titles can you come up with? Let’s gather them together and do one big post we can all share!